A Blog Reference Guide
Hey y’all! So I put together a short guide to the blog for those of you who may be new. There’s been an entry posted every weekday since February, so there’s about 150+ entries to get through to catch up, which… well, that’ll take you a few days of reading pretty seriously.
I hope this comes in handy: you will be able to get to all this info from the permanent link way up there ^^ in the navigation bar. If there are particular entries that you loved and that you think I should include in this list, feel free to let me know!
So, if you’re just joining us recently, try reading these entries first:
- Sweaty hands? Look no further then this entry.
- Bruising? Here’s your cure.
- Just getting started? Peek in my pole bag.
- Working to improve? Get a videocamera.
- Thinking about teaching? Take a read.
- Music rut? Check out the Thursday Tunes
- Need a pick me up? Feeling like you suck? You don’t. And you’re just right the way you are.
- Trying to keep track of classes? iPhones check here.
- In a rut? Or, do you have the pole blahs?
- Transitioning to spin mode? Here’s a list of things that helped me.
- Want more productive practices? Practice with intent.
- Getting ready for a photo shoot? This might help.
- If you are looking for tutorials and tips on tricks, take a look at Tuesday Tips
- Feeling crafty? Glitter your heels, make butt floss ties, alter some booty shorts that are too small, rip up a shirt, rhinestone your shoes!
- Need non-pole inspiration? Watch Chaz Buzan, Marie Chouinard, Kerri Kresinski, Wade Robson’s choreo, Jacoby & Pronk, Prague,
- Struggling to find your own style? Read Amber Richards’ advice here and here, or Michelle Stanek’s take.
I’ve also included answers to frequently asked questions. If you have any more to ask, feel free to post them in the comments!
When and how did you start pole dancing?
I started back in 2007: A friend mentioned the amazing pole dance classes that she was taking, and how personally rewarding the classes had been for her. I went to an intro class, and was immediately hooked. Since then, pole dance has been an important part of my life– I’ve gone consistently ever since.
Do you have any athletic/artistic background?
Absolutely not, and I’m proud of it! I may not have any training in any formal disciplines, but I am proud of what I have accomplished and I am so inspired by all the people I see around me, of all ages, shapes, and sizes, who are exploring pole dance. Prior to taking my first pole class, I had never gone to the gym or been any good at any athletic activity (although I did run hurdles, slowly, in high school).
What is your training regimen like?
When I first started taking classes, I went to a studio that focused on movement and fluidity– I went to a 2-hour class once a week for about 3 years before I started getting more interested in advanced aerial combinations and tricks and stepped up the intensity. Now, I teach about 5 hours a week (beginner through advanced), take class as a student or rent studio time for 3-5 hours, take a couple 2-4 of Circus (silks, flying trapeze, lyra, Chinese pole, static trap) and an hour or so of pilates. I went from sitting on my butt all day long to moving and shaking a couple hours every day! I’ve never been happier, healthier (I smoked for 10 years!), or in better shape, and it’s all thanks to pole and being inspired to explore what I’m truly capable of.
Do you have any pole idols?
I don’t– although I look up to many polers, including students, friends, and instructors. I think that we all have different bodies, different experiences, and different emotions, and those all play a role in the way that we dance and naturally express ourselves. I’m really working to be the best dancer that I can be, and come to an understanding of the unique way that my body truly loves to move!
Do companies pay you to recommend their products?
Absolutely not! I write for the Bad Kitty Blog as a staff writer, but I am not interested (and neither are they!) in having paid product placement published in my blog, or getting anything other than the truth when I review an item. I started this blog to honestly share whatever experiences and learnings I thought might be of interest to others, and my integrity is too important to me to ever compromise that.
How do you have time to blog every day?
I don’t know! I do work 9-5 (I’m a project manager at a firm that does apartment renovations for very rich people in Manhattan), and I have a boyfriend, a dog, friends to keep up with, not to mention a mom that I don’t call often enough and a ton of classes to take and teach every week. But this blog has come to be really important to me, and even if I have to come home late night after working, teaching, taking a class, and then having dinner and drinks, and edit a video for a Tuesday Tip, it’s really a labor of love. I try to set up a week’s post in advance by using the timed publish feature in the blog software I use, but there’s no secret and I’m honestly surprised in myself that I still have stuff to talk about every day!
Do you have anything you’re curious about? Ask away!
Tomorrow’s post: Thursday Tunes…

I saw that you say that you don’t have any pole idols and felt that I have to tell you that I recently found your blog and you have become my pole idol! I started pole dancing just a few months ago and I fell in love instantly. And your blog is really inspirational and helps me to understand the sport more and makes me want to learn more as well! I hope to be able to do the same thing, to help people understand the awesomeness that is pole dance!
So now you know that you have at least one big fan in Sweden!
/Signe
Thank you Signe, you are too kind! I love pole dance too, and I am glad that you found something that you are so passionate about and enjoy so much! Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment =)
The reference guide is definitely helpful! Is there any way you could add a search bar to the blog, too? I stopped by the other day hunting for that entry about surviving spin mode but had trouble finding it (although I eventually found it via Google). =)
There is a search bar! On the main blog page, right at the top right under “Aerial Amy” =)
Oh, there sure is… I had no idea! Thanks!
=) No problem!
I am new to your blog, having subscribed to your mailing list a couple weeks ago. I get so excited when I see one of your emails in my inbox! Your blog is filled with incredibly valuable info that not only helps me in regards to my own personal pole goals, but that also helps me become a better instructor so that my students can reach theirs. I pole almost every day and teach 2-3 days a week. I am so grateful that I found your blog. You rock, Amy!!
Thank you for letting me invade your inbox every morning =) I really appreciate feedback from everyone, and hearing positive responses from instructors really makes my day…. thanks so much for taking the time to leave a comment and let me know that I helped, that is so thoughtful of you!
Amy, I love the new feature. It has most of my favorites there. Thank you for taking the time to do this : )
Awesome, I’m so glad it’s actually useful! Thanks for checking it out =)
Hi Amy,
I really enjoy your blog and find great tips. I was wondering do you subscribe to many other pole sites/blogs and what are they?
Thanks!
Hi Aoife! Thanks for stopping by! I’m going to put together a blog roll soon, I’m just waiting a bit to make sure that I’m posting sites that update regularly and are in it for the long haul!
What an inspiration! I had no idea you also held a full time job. Amazing. Thank you for the blog, I’m still going through every single entry, drinking them up like I’m parched! I’ve been poling for a year, with a focus on general fluidity (read: I love floor work!) but now I really want to work on being more graceful in my pole tricks and your nemesis posts are perfect! I can’t thank you enough.
Thanks Angela, that is so kind of you
Yes, I have a full time job and balance is a constant struggle for me but I can’t imagine letting go of any thing just yet. If there’s something specific that you’re looking for (floorwork wise or otherwise) please let me know! xoxo