Tuesday Tips: Hip flexor flexibility
I get asked a lot about how to increase flexibility but since I’m not an expert and I haven’t received any formal training in flexibility instruction, I’ve always been a little hesitant to write an entry about it. However, lucky for you guys, my good friend Ellen Lovelace (aka Ottersocks, or my favorite nickname ever, Doctor Sultry) is a pole dance instructor out at Poletential in Redwood City, CA, and she IS an expert! Among many other things: she is a certified aerial yoga instructor, has two Masters degrees (in Public Health and Russian Studies), and is a personal concierge! Additionally, Ellen is a resistance stretching trainer, having studied the Ki-Hara method under Anne Tierney and Steve Sierra, who train and stretch US Olympic swimming champion Dara Torres. She has put together a guest video for today’s tips, with some resistance stretching exercises designed to help you lengthen and strengthen your hip flexors. So, thanks Ellen for all your help, time, and effort.
Resistance stretching is something that I discovered as a way to strengthen AND increase flexibility at the same time. The theory behind it appeals to my way of thinking, and I also like that it’s very difficult to overstretch or pull a muscle using resistance techniques. I also find that for my body, resistance stretching found the fastest gains– I literally got my splits from resistance stretching over maybe a month, taking only one class a week. However, not every kind of stretching is equally effective for everyone. If you’re serious about gaining flexibility, do your research, listen to your body, and try out many different kinds until you find what works best for you, and feels right. So, without further ado, here is Ellen!
I discovered resistance stretching when my Rolfer showed me some of the stretches to do in my quest to restore movement to a hamstring that was locked up with scar tissue for almost 20 years. She also referred me to a resistance stretch trainer for assisted stretch sessions (there is a whole other form of this work that involves being hands-on stretched, kind of like a Thai massage but WAY more intense.) I started to see tremendous gains in my flexibility, and realized the power of this form of stretching for me. Passive stretching always hurt, and I’d find that the next day, I was just as tight as I’d been before stretching the previous day. With this method, I found that each time I stretched, I maintained some of the gains from the previous session. By engaging my muscles while stretching them, I realized that I couldn’t overstretch, and therefore never felt like I was injuring myself, while I was able to go deeper into stretches than ever before. The first time I used resistance in a center straddle stretch, and my nose touched the floor in front of me, I was hooked for sure! When the Ki-Hara people offered resistance stretch training in California, I couldn’t wait to attend and learn more.
I’ve seen a lot of the same gains in clients with whom I’ve used these techniques. Both in people who are trying to achieve gains in flexibility for pole, and in people who are just looking to be looser and more comfortable in their bodies for everyday life. Forward bends get deeper, splits get closer to the floor, hips open, and bodies feel longer and stronger.
Resistance stretching is the concept of continually contracting a muscle while you move it through its range of motion. If I contract my bicep (“make a muscle”), and you pull my fist away from me to straighten my arm while I gently resist you, I am getting a resistance stretch of my bicep. The main advantage to this method is that you cannot overstretch a muscle since you are actively engaging it during the stretch. Also, as you’ll see in the video, each stretch has a counter-move, so that in one direction you are strengthening the muscle (while you contract/shorten it), and in one direction you are stretching it (while you extend/lengthen it).
In resistance stretching, we focus on the balancing muscle groups in the body. Think again about “making a muscle” with your bicep. When your bicep is contracting, your tricep is extending. When you straighten your elbow, the tricep contracts while the bicep extends. In theory, if your tricep was really weak, you might not be able to straighten your arm, no matter how long and flexible your bicep was. Now apply this to your leg: if your quads (front of the leg) are very weak and can’t contract effectively, your central hamstring (back of the leg) won’t be able to fully lengthen. I can just work a client’s quads, have them touch their toes, and watch them get closer to the floor than before, without ever going near their hamstrings. This is why we do both a strengthening move and stretching move for every muscle we work on–we need to be both long AND strong in all the balancing muscle groups in order to achieve maximum flexibility. Today’s stretches are all about the hip flexors, but the medial, central, and lateral hamstrings are every bit as important!
The main challenge people have with this method at first is the tendency to resist themselves too hard. You should be providing gentle resistance, such that you can smoothly move through the range of motion, and are not shaking with effort. About 60% of your max resistance is all you need. Keep the target muscle engaged/resisting through the entire range of both the strengthening and stretching motions—you should never be relaxing the muscle. These stretches should feel like work! And remember, unlike traditional static stretching, there is no need to “hold” the stretch at the end range. Rather, you should be continually moving, contracting and extending, strengthening and stretching. To see these concepts illustrated, check out the video below or take a peek at it directly on YouTube here.
One last hint for you: your hip flexors are directly balanced by your hamstrings. If your hamstrings are very weak and cannot adequately contract, your hip flexors will never be able to fully lengthen. Picture your back leg when you’re in a split: that hip flexor is stretched and that hamstring is contracted! (And vice versa! Strong hip flexors are able to contract and pull your hamstrings long!) So don’t just stretch your target muscle—also strengthen its balancing muscle!
It is normal to be sore after resistance stretching. Not in an “oof I overstretched” kind of way, but sore as if you’d been lifting weights. Your resistance is working like weights do, and you are tearing down muscle fibers just as if you’d been lifting. Finally, be patient. It’s taken a lifetime to tie your fascia into the knot you are today. It will take a while to undo it!
You can find Ellen on her Facebook page! She does long distance stretching over Skype as well. If you want more information on resistance stretching, you can read Bob Cooley’s book, The Genius of Stretching or check out his website.. There are also DVDs by Dara Torres and you can buy a resistance stretching app in the Apple store for an iDevice.
Tomorrow’s post: Perspective…

sweet! I’m curious in more middle/low back flexibility as well…I’m going to hop over to her page to see if she has any tips on that
In my experience, (but I’m definitely not a stretching expert, I just know a few) middle/low back tends to be about passive stretching. Upper back can be opened up by working chest/shoulder flexibility though.
This is awesome! Thanks Amy (and Ellen!). The video was essential for my understanding and as one of my 2012 resolutions is to improve my flexibility, I’ll be replaying this a lot!
I agree, Ellen did a great job with this Tip!
Thank you! I can’t wait to give this a try and check out the other resources you mentioned! I’ve been really working on flexibility with passive stretching for some time now and, although I have seen gains, it is really really slow and frustrating. I was beginning to think that I just had to accept that that was how it was going to be but now I have hope (or at least another avenue to explore)!
Yes, there are so many different methods of stretching that it helps to really look around and try them out to see what works best for your body. And different body parts may respond better to different techniques as well!
I highly recommend that anyone do a quick skype with Ellen before starting this kind of stretching. I have done 2 and need to do another when my schedule opens up. I was making really good progress using this method. I personally need to use resistance stretches and passive stretches and this is something that Ellen will cover with you and she’s really good at identifying where you are weak and giving you suggestions how to build your routine so each stretch will work to it’s full potential!! Great article!
I think one-on-one sessions can be a great way to make sure that you’re using the right amount of resistance and really employing the technique correctly. Thanks for the great idea Charley!!
Heya, thank you so much! just what i needed! i’ve been doing normal passive stretching for ages and getting no where! i did a massive session last night and woke up today hardly able to walk! ill look into he skype thing, but with the second excersice, are you meant to kick into the ground the whole time or push into it constantly, without kicking? i wasnt sure if we were meant to copy her, or kick as she did at the start! thanks xx
Andria, not sure if you saw but Ellen posted a response to you
Glad you’re finding this useful!
To answer Andria’s question, in the 2nd stretch your back foot is meant to be in contact with the mat, pressing (kicking) the top of the foot down into it at all times. Your back knee is also driving into the mat–like you were trying to bring it to your chest–the whole time. Keep that leg engaged so the hip flexor is firing.
I welcome more questions!
would ‘normal’ splits stretching be counter productive? as you said in the video, it does end up hurting so maybe i should decrease how many times i am trying to do it per week. i try for at least 4 splits sessions a week and have been getting no where!
and that description really helped with how to ‘kick’ the leg. i could really feel how it will help. i’ll keep you posted!
my last question is- is there a cost to skype, how / where is the info . anything i have been doing in little old adelaide really hasnt helped, even asking my physio etc. i get given stretches, have had massage, had my hips put back in (i have one leg longer than the other) so this- this is my next big try! thanks so much for your time
thank you so much! have just been trying it now and it makes more sense (thanks to my smarty pants boyfriend trainer person too
) i will do a big try of it for a while tomorrow and report back
how does the skype thing work? as in how much, can i do it from australia? such things
Yes! Skype works from anywhere. I hope you get good results from this!
thanks amy- re skype i mean is there a cost? will post to ellen. thanks – i think i have been replying incorrectly, i now see the ‘reply’ button…’
and Amy – you said you saw improvements in a month- can i ask how often did you practice? as in daily for half an hour or … something like that
thank you!
Nope– as in once a week for an hour. I think my results were sort of out of the ordinary though
thanks amy- i did see and reply to ellens response. was really helpful! and i’ll aim for at least 3 x per week in addition to my normal stretching. i think. now i wonder if ‘normal’ splits stretching would be counter productive… what do you think?
thanks!
SWEET – i tried these out at pole practice the other day and indeed, they are intense but helpful. been looking for hip flexor training exercises for the longest time!
Ellen is the bomb, isn’t she? Love these, mine are super tight too and these are awesome =)
This post is really encouraging for me. Like Ellen, passive stretching has never worked for me, even when I danced in high school and college. I kept thinking it was a lack of discipline, but everytime I would dedicate myself to stretching regularly, I would feel sore and tight after a few days, and I’ve hurt myself more times than I can count. I’ve looked up some resources, and found a DVD guide, and hope this makes the difference for me. I’m the point in poling that I really can’t progress until I can increase my range of motion, so I’m excited that this may be my answer. Thanks for this post!
I hope so too. Passive stretching has never worked for me either, and I wish that people had more ready access to different types of stretching because I’ve seen so many injuries from improper flexibility training!
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Great blog, Amy!
Do you have tips for back strengthening/flexibility also? Or any tips for the gemini-superman-dove combo?
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